To know if a girl really loves you is important for two reasons. First, if you think you might be falling in love with her, you’ll want to know that your feelings are reciprocated. On the other hand, if you’re just interested in dating her casually, it’s important to know if she feels more strongly. Perhaps you’ll want to break things off or slow them down.
Knowing these, how do you tell she's in love with you?
1. She tells you: This should be obvious. It can be easy to hear a girl say that she loves you and still doubt that she’s “really” in love with you. But if she chooses to drop this on you for the first time, she’s probably in love. We don’t risk such large statements if there isn’t at least a kernel of truth to them. If she says the words, then she probably means it — or at least feels some very strong emotions that are creating the experience of love.
2. She cuts off other guys: In this age, it’s not uncommon for girls to date several people at once. She’s playing the field and playing the market to see what’s out there. It’s only when she really starts making a connection with one man that she puts the brakes on other relationships to focus on the one she cares about the most. Once this happens, you can be sure she’s taking you more seriously.
3. She talks about you as a couple: Listen for the collective pronoun “we” when your girl starts talking about you. With that small shift, she’s considering you as a unit, and it might be because she’s in love. You’re no longer just some guy she’s dating, even if the two of you are exclusive.
4. She gives you meaningful gifts: Gifts speak volumes, especially when they’re given by a woman. When a woman gets you a gift, she likely put some thought into it as a signal of how much she cares.